Let me begin by saying originally I move in with my fiance, believing that it would be me, him, and my 2 children (at the time 8 & 5). But not a week passed before his 29 year old son moved in with us. So my kids bunk together. This is temporary says my fiance. It has been 2 years since. His son still lives with us. According to my fiance his son is bipolar. According to his son he is lazy. The "boy " does not work, does not go to school, does not clean house, eats all our food. I've lost it a few times now. I have told my fiance how I feel. I told him I don't want him out, just want him to get a job. He eats all our food, extremely overweight, stinks. We can smell his bedroom in the livingroom. When he walks by one can almost taste it. My fiance and I r suppose to get married in five months. I'm having second thoughts. His daughter is disrespectful to me and my family. My fiance let's them do it. Pays their bills, gets them out of every bind. I feel selfish. Like a bitch. My fiance is willing to help raise my kids, but I can't stand his. My kids love him and r starting to call him dad, and he likes it. He is also 16 years older than me, not that it matters. We love eachother, bit things aren't great at the house. I told his son he's lazy and he needs to get a job.