Going to meet the Skids and Family of DH. SD worried bio mom will find out.
So my DH and I are traveling 3k miles to all meet and out. SD said shes hiding the trip from bio. We are getting a house a few hours away for ss and his girlfriend her 3year old, and sd. Dh and sd talked about not telling bio mom. They said she'd go bazerk. Sd said "mom said she had the feeling dad was going to be coming home soon". They said she's always been kind of psychic. So dh and I talked about if we see her in public , being polite etc, but if she turns toxic narcissist we IMMEDIATELY just walk away with no comment. Say nothing just walk away. But I have a real problem with "HUGGING ". He hugs people and I have not one problem with it with any other person. But I dont want him EVER touching her AT ALL!!!! Unless at a funeral. ir ICU hospital thing. Because shell hang on and make it more than what it is. He said her seeing us together would hurt her. I think it would bring her closure to see us together. It would help her move on with her life. Not to hurt her but bring her into reality. Give her some closure. Sd should not have to hide her trip with us because mom is a nut case. WHATS your take on this?