Going forward as cordial strangers
after the past weekend, I think the writing is on the wall. My SDs will be very polite and superficial, but nothing more. They are very active on FB and yet I remain blocked still from ten years ago. That is very telling isn’t it. More pics from this weekend up without mention of me or my daughter.
So, going forward I will be cordial but not buy them gifts cards as I had done last year the same as my kids. No more paying for hotel rooms for them. I am not angry, better word is disappointed. Should I keep reaching out? They do thank me very much. I think to just let my DH take the lead and when I see them great. But to send gifts cards and texts would be inappropriate.