Family Zoom Call and More SD23 Drama
So SO's family has a Zoom call every other Sunday. He has a large family (6 siblings spread around the country, and his 87 year old mom lives in Wisconsin). So they invite the next generation, who are now mostly young adults. Of course most young adults don't wanna hang around a zoom call with older aunts/uncles so they partipate sporadically or pop on for a minute to say hello and go do something else. SD23 is the exception and is on every call, since she has no life or friends and therefore nothing else to do on a weekend. Annoying as since I disengaged I really dislike seeing her surly face, but don't really acknowlege her and its typically only a half hour call.
So yesterday's call SO's mom asked SD23 what her plans were for Christmas Day. SD23 is not invited to spend Christmas with us. SO's sister (SD23's aunt) lives near her and the assumption was SD23 would go there for Christmas, as she did for Thanksgiving. There was some awkwardness though, as though SD23 hadn't been officially invited. Also seems like SD23 was trying to call her aunt fishing around for an invitation but hadn't heard back. On the call her Aunt made some excuse about breaking her phone but then said of course SD23 should come over on Christmas Day.
Then after the Zoom call ended SO's phone immediately starts blowing up with texts. I always know this is some SD23 drama as she will text 15 times in a row when she is upset about something. I didn't ask and SO didn't say but I assume it was SD23 whining again about having nowhere to go for holidays, whining about not really feeling welcome at her aunt's house, etc.
I wonder if her aunt was hoping SD23 would go somewhere else for the holiday but no such luck? Maybe even her aunt's family is annoyed at SD23's surly rude behavior? At any rate, too bad so sad for SD23 - cause she ain't coming here!