Door is now opened
I was very surprised to get an email back from dh's daughter. It was lovely, and very friendly, and clearly asking me to discuss my life. I would not have welcomed this, but I feel that I need to respond and attempt a relationship now. I guess maybe it is the right time, she has matured.
I still have not mentioned it to dh , nor he to me.
I will wait a few days and respond. I find myself concerned that she will share my info w/ her mother. Who is a very attractive business woman. This may sound crazy, but over the past years I have gone from a size 6 to 18! I look my age and will be mortified for his daughter to be shocked seeing me after all these years. Most people are and it is painful for me.
My hobbies-- I am a great baker. Making french pastries and such. I am tempted to share pictures with her but again do I sound like too much of a fat old lady? LOL.
Any advice? I did not set out wanting a pen pal, but it seems like here I am.
My friends think this could be a great opportunity. To have someone else in my life. My kids are mostly all grown at college, so who knows?
Do I write quickly?