DH is really showing changed behaviour
Chinese New Year is next week so DH and I are planning all the many visits we have to pay to senior family members as is the tradition.
Me: Hang on, I hope you aren't planning to visit SD31's in-laws. We did that last year, right?
DH: We did.
Me: Well, her parents-in-law are not Chinese, so we aren't obligated to visit them.
DH: I suppose.
Me: And SD lives with them. Technically, your daughter should be visiting you. Not the other way around.
DH: Okay, we won't visit them.
Wow. That was easy!
I'm really pleased with DH's changed behaviour after our big fight three weeks ago!