DH did it again.
Last week DH insisted / begged me to send some digital pictures of our BS birthday to SD. I reluctantly did so, since he asked very nicely and reminded me that BS is his 1/2 brother, etc etc. I never received a response of any sort from SD, which just shows me that she no longer wants to even be civil with me. After the nasty letter exchange, she was crying to DH justifying all her nasty behavior over the past few years. And of course DH now thinks I am just as guilty for all the trouble as SD. So last night DH mentioned that SD received the pictures, and I said Oh really, I didn't know if they went through or not since I never received a response. A simple thank you with no other correspondence would have been proper email etiquette. When I said that I also stated, so I guess SD doesn't even want to be civil now. Well he got all defensive and said - well you didn't want to send them in the first place! I said yes, but she didn't know that so she should have said "thank you" to be polite. Well he stomped off in a major huff and slept in the spare bedroom last night. Things were going better, but at the mere mention of SD even in conversation sends him over the bend. I will NOT be sending any more pictures or anything to SD - no matter how much DH begs. Every time there is interaction with SD WE HAVE A FIGHT! I am sick of it. I was thinking there was hope for our marriage, but I am beginning to doubt that again.