BF's daughter's baby is born and I am excluded just like at her wedding - shocker i know
So i have posted before about this daughter's wedding and being treated like a leper - well, a year and almost a half later - she has a baby and i'm excluded once again - this after she is fake friendly to me at her house (after taking pics with BF and his ex excluding me once again like they are one big happy family and I am invisible). Shocker I know.
She went into labor on Monday and he said she didn't want any company the first day - i ask him later in the day what he is doing and he announces he's on the way to the hospital. We had just made up the day before after fighting for two weeks about me not wanting to go to her bday get together because of the shower fiasco and younger daughter being hateful to me and my son. I said I will come there to wait with you. He wouldn't even tell me the name of the hospital and said she is too tired for anybody other than family. Well, that told me a lot about where i stand with him! So i'm pretty upset thinking yeah, there's more to it than that. I had also confronted her nicely about selling a rocking chair a week before that I had asked her if she wanted and her taking it and then seeing it for sale online without asking me if i wanted it back first. No comments about that please because i don't agree she had that right. i had told him my friend's daughter wanted it too and he knew that. She shouldn't have taken it if she didn't want it and then made money off of it. Anyway,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Now the ex arrives Friday from out of town. I still have not been invited to see baby. Guess where he was saturday? With said baby, daughter and ex wife visiting baby. I asked him why i wasn't invited. Because daughter still doesn't want company and is having a rough time - apparently she is the only new mother that has ever had to deal with her needy baby. geez. He would flip if I was hanging out with my ex but he makes his own rules for himself - always has. He actually got pissed at me for being upset at that. Typical. Oh and then he says because of things i write online (on here) and say to him about his daughters - all true and because they are hurtful and go out of their way to be mean for no reason. Once again they are innocent and perfect and everything is my fault. gag. We have been arguing because of how I am treated but apparently that is ok with him!! The hospital excuse was just that - an excuse. i knew it. Gawd, i'm so over all this drama. I'm done. It's just sickening to me all the excuses and horrible treatment i have received from these horrible people and then actually blamed for it which is just tortious to me. It is actually making me physically and emotionally sick. No future with this selfish, non-accountable man and his rude, snobby, selfish kids.
Enough is enough. I know i deserve better. As Rags would say - I shouldn't have to be invited into his life. It should just be a given. Obviously his daughter is calling the shots and he lets her exclude me when he knows how hurtful it is to me. He was with me in the hospital with me when my mother was very ill and at home when she was on her deathbed but this is different he says. No it's not. It's because he is never in control when his hateful daughters are concerned. He will never admit his children are just not nice to me and for sure do not have his best interests at heart and never will. His loss. I should have taken my older sister's advice long ago when she said FK! him! He will never stand up for you. Why do you want a man who opposes everything you want or feel? It's true. He can let his mini wives control him forever for all I care. I deserve so much better than being treated like I don't exist or matter.