Asking question very seriously
Brief background. New husband, at age 58, has a very spoiled, manipulative, user adult daughter, age 31, who has decided she hates me because she feels I threaten her inheritance. As she puts it, "it's all mine", so has gone out of her way to treat my husband very badly because he sides with me and chooses me.
We are all agreed that I will not have any relationship, at all, with his daughter, since she doesn't want a relationship, nor do I at this point. But, my husband will see her, whenever it's agreed upon, by himself. I've already experienced her talking badly about me, behind my back to her dad. He tries to disengage from it, but she persists. He asks her to stop, but then she continues, albeit, passive aggressively. My husband is COMPLETELY defenseless against her as she is his only child.
Here is my question: it bothers me and I worry that, over time, she will influence his opinion against me. To avoid this, Is it really that wrong for me to ask him to stop seeing her all together until she either grows up or changes her attitude? Doesn't ANYONE else, deep down even, feel this same way?
thsnks in advance.