4.5 months married and I am out
I just want to thank you all for the info and validation. I left him today. Can't divorce this man fast enough.
We got home from our 2 week vacation yesterday. 23 yo ss was staying at our house to take care of the dogs.
Ss says the dogs went to the bathroom a lot in the house...meaning he didn't take them outside. Dirty dishes everywhere, used washcloths on the shower floor, some of my things were touched.
We found out that ss invited a friend over who was bringing fentanyl but got arrested before he got to our house.
Stbx found 2 loaded guns in the house and a lot of pot which is illegal in our state.
2 of the 23 yo triplets came on our trip and made it hell mostly.
So I packed the essentials and basics and am staying with a friend til I get on my feet.
I don't believe stbx would ever change his enabling, enmeshed, and emotionally incestuous ways.
Gotta calm down, get back to work, then file for divorce.
Thank you all for this forum. I can't tell you enough how your stories and comments validated me.
I hope the best for each and every one of you!!!