I'm a newbie here but I've been reading for months. Just decided to get on the bandwagon tonight and will post my story soon...but...SD21 sent a "short and sweet" Father's Day text a few minutes ago. At 11:15 pm. It said Happy Fathers Day. Hope it was good. Gee, thanks. Somehow I think she was checking the block so dad will send a birthday gift in a few weeks. I'm newly disengaged and don't think that fact is gonna sink in till she's checking her mailbox around that time. Too damned bad. She has treated him like crap for long enough...I over it!