Yeah for ME DH bucked up!!!
Okay so I get home today and I walk in on my husband talking to one of my skids and he is telling him how he is upset with him for something he did that really hurt my feelings(SS is 26) I am the 25.00 gift card recipient if you all remember that saga. So he gets off the phone shaking his head and says SS said that when they were putting gift bags together the gift card was all they had "left over" and when he said some thing to SD-in-law about how he felt it was not really a good gift she told SS I could just get over it after all it's the thought that counts! he then told DH that he planned on writing an extra nice Thank-you note to make up for it. This is after I see BM on their facebook page showing off the diamond necklace they gave her. This is the BM that decided to become a mom 1 month before the wedding. BUT i dygress Point is he did it he stuck up for me!!! I presented him with a list of my grievances a week ago and told him I am more than willing at this point to bow out of his and their lives and move on, but treating me like this is no longer an option. Also adding another person to this family willing to treat me like that was the straw that broke the camels back I did it clamly( goforit's advice thanks girlfriend!!)He said the whole wedding thing really opened his eyes to what his kids have become. I told him not to sweat it when christmas comes we'll just throw whatever we have left over in a box wrap it and give it to SD-in-law, this chick needs to be brought down hard and fast!! Thanks for all your advice and good wishes and prayers everyone