Step mom's rights
Hi, i'm a future step mom to a 2 year old girl.
She is not the problem. The BM thinks its my duty to look after SD if husband is working while she had to come pick up SD two hours earlier. She talks to FHD about giving me orders on what I’m suppose to do example: Tell Step Witch she has to go and drop SD at “this place” at 15:00, and she has to hurry up. Why can’t se ASK me herself. We have to do things according to her schedule and it does not work for me. FHD and BM is in a fight at the moment because he doesn’t give her what she wants and if it doesn’t benefit her in some why, she will tantrum. She says I have no right in saying anything that involves me, no matter how bad it influence my life, but I have to jump when she snaps her fingers. She says its my responsibility to look after SD when she is with us, but when we ask BM if her parents will watch SD for 3 hours, she replies, SD is not their responsibility. :jawdrop:
Now, my question: What is the legal responsibilities from a step mom towards a step child and the BM? :?