Key to house
BM is asking my partner if when oldest son goes up to High School if he can get a key to our house (it's in the same town as school) for him to come home at lunch time so he won't be lonley. My partner works offshore so when he's away it's just me for 3 weeks but I work full time as a teacher every day so won't be home at lunch. I'm saying not a chance in hell because I know the key won't just be used for that and she'll use it to come to the house when I'm out. My partner thinks he's old enough to have one and thinks it's a good idea. He can barely close the door properly never mind lock it plus, my partner is saying I can make him a sandwich in the morning before I go to work. Haha wtf is he serious? I feel like I'm not getting a say in this but I don't feel I'm being unreasonable, it's my house as well and I don't want him coming here when I'm not. What can I do? I'm seriously looking at flats to rent right now I'm so sick of this shit and being treated like something they wiped off their shoe.