Help! BM will not even try to know me.
Need advice please! I am now living with my boy friend and he has 3 kids who come over every other weekend. We get along great and have a good bond. I am very careful about staying in my lane and not getting involved in things that do not concern me. I basically cook for them and take them fun places that they have never got to do before. Same as I always did with my own kids who are now 18, 20 and 21. Me and my BF get along really good and never fight at all. The only issue we have is that he lets his BM run everything and he absolutly no say so in anything that has to do with the kids. I dont get involved but it hurts me to see him treated so badly. BM will not meet me or have any contact with me what so every. Its been over a year and we have not ever met. She texts my BF and tells him that she dont want me braiding their little girls hair or even sleeping in the same room with her. She also pitches a fit and threatened to keep the kids from him if I ride in the car to take them home. That makes me feel terrible for some reason. I try to not let it bother me but it does. I love his kids and I am NOT trying to be a second mom. They have a mom and dad. I just want to be treated better. I care for his kids like I did for my own. I raised 3 beautiful children by myself and they turned out great. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.