20yr old ss on drugs
My husband's son is going to be 20 next month he had a child when he was 17 doesn't work and is on drugs.. I'm fed up We have allowed him to live with us twice and give him 3 months to find a job or go back to school or both as soon as e months would come up he leaves doesn't say thank you nothing just leaves. His dad started renting a room for him because I won't allow him to live with us anymore well he told his dad he was gone for 6 days and they kicked him out I personally don't believe that but whatever now he's homeless again and he called his dad 3 nights ago wanted to know if him and his girlfriend can spend the night I said no absolutely not he needs to learn that he needs to be responsible. My husband was very angry with me and called me a bitch and said his son will always come first. This is not the first time this has happened it's like the 3rd time now and he will always tell me my place. I sound like a broke. Record every time we talk so I haven't talked to him in 3 days. There is so much more to this story I'm just giving u the short versions. He says u hate his son I say no I just don't like his ways he has bb guns sent to my mail he has no business with a gun period he's up to no goos. When he gets mad at his dad he threatens to kill him calls him a piece of shit dad just totally disrespects him. I have opened my home to this kid but he is just a bumb. I feel so distant from my husband I don't k ow what to do. I know if this continues if he doesn't put boundaries up with him make him responsible this marriage is over and we just got married this past October. Any suggestions? Am I wrong?