What if we've never followed the court order
My court order with my exH states that I have sole legal custody and joint physical. The visitation was to be Tues and Thurs evening visits and he could have them Fri after school - sun night every other weekend and we'd take turns with Christmas and Thanksgiving.
He was to pay $300 weekly in child support, all private school tuition, all extra curriculars, medical insurance and all medical expenses.
Early into the arrangement once he got himself settled into a new home, he asked to have the kids overnight during the week for Thurs only and he asked if he could bring them to school Monday mornings instead of doing the exchange Sunday night as it would be easier for him.
He also stated that he would have a difficult time fullfilling the financial obligations of the order. So he agreed to increase support to $350 weekly, I'd cover medical (I know had access), we'd split tuition.
I don't bother asking him for $ for extra curriculars or medical expenses unless they are over $50.
Now he doesn't want to pay for the kid's private schooling and I'm not happy. He's just saying he can't do it.
I have always tried to keep this divorce cordial and make things easy for him.
What can i do at this point? Since we've made verbal agreements after establishing the original order, where do I currently stand?