These awful phone calls
Has anyone had any success with proving BM's alienation/interrogation tactics, and inappropriate use of her damn unrestricted phone access? It's illegal to record the calls without parties' knowledge, I know- but BM is so loud when she talks to the boys that even if you're in the next room of our acoustically live house, you can hear her unnaturally loud voice....and also we hear the boys' responses, usually "Yes....No.....Yes....Yes......No.....No, I love you Mommy...." etc....etc....or the more sensitive one starts crying....ugh. And getting ready to go to court, we were trying to think of ways to make the phone nonsense a relevant part of this whole shitstorm.
She actually quizzed them the other day, on the phone, about their meeting with their law guardian. We were not listening in- merely in the same room- and of course she accused us of listening on the other phone. She is more unstable by the day.