Looking for clarification on a part in the updated CO It was officially updated last year after dh was awarded temp custody from dss of SS back in 2021. It became permanent just a year ago.
Honestly I didn't think there was a summer clause to the 1 week she gets in the summer like the first CO. First CO said dh had 30days prior to inform BM of the two, 2weeks he would get in the summer and we would send the dates between March and April. Well bm doesn't even have a copy of thr CO. Last yr she missed Thanksgiving and Christmas bc she kept asking and blaming dh for not having her copy. She lives 5mins from court in her court in her county where it was filed and can't seem to call, email or walk there for the copy. She'd rather jus play the blame game instead. We're wondering how's that helping her with her time?
Anyways the CO says a line that seems pointless! Let me know what you all think it means. This question may even be pointless since I'm sure she still doesn't have thr CO and probably forgot she even gets a week in the summer lol.
1. The parties shall have one uninterrupted seven day period time with the child during the summer school break upon 45 days notice to the other parent of the time they want to take for their vacation. Failure to give 45 day notice shall not result in forfeiture of such vacation time, however.
Does this really mean she has 45 days and if she doesn't oh well she still gets her time? Really? Then what's the point of this being there. This may be why I forgot bc my mind said well its a bit of a pointless point. Maybe I'm reading it wrong? If she ever gets a copy she would find a way to push the buttons of any part of it so checking if this had a boundary or its jus a flub statement. Maybe hey it's courteous to send notice but if you don't that's okay too *facepalm*