Hey everyone, please tell me that I'm not crazy!
My SD that lives out of state (one of two) was going to come down to finally come and visit her father. She has not come down to see him for four years complaining that she is afraid to fly. BM has kept his kids from him since the beginning of their divorce with restraining orders, contept of court, communication harrassment charges, etc. You name it that woman has done it. Anyway, the other SD just turned 18 so our child support has been cut in half. So, of course, BM runns to the court system asking for it to be reevaluated. Now, keep in mind that the SD's don't call him on fathers day, his birthday or anyother important day for him, not even a card. They do however call on their birthday. (Youngest just had a b-day a couple days ago.) They only call when they have their hand out. Same with BM.
So, when he called SD to wish her a happy b-day, he asked her if she would like to come down and see him. SD wanted to, BM said ok. WHY?????? Why after all these years is it ok now? I think that it is because a.) she wants school clothes b.) she wants a birthday gift (did i mention he bought her a laptop for her brithday last month?) c.) BM is sending her down here to report back on what we have.
My question to everyone is "If she comes down and sees all the nice things that we have, can BM use that in the support case against us?