BM refusing to give documents and follow court order
DH court order states he has to carry ss on his insurance. He also has to pay the premiums, any bills are to be split 60/40 between DH and BM. BM is also supposed to not make any medical decisions without consulting DH.
This hasn't been going on since day one. She will let Dh know about the appointments the day of so he has no way of being able to go. DH also has a bill for over $4000 for ss dental due to BM taking him to an out of network provider and getting a ton of caps, cavities, etc done. She is refusing to pay. She is also refusing to give dh ss social security number so now dh insurance is about to drop ss from his plan. He has been fighting this since October. The only documentation for ss that dh has is his "recognition of parentage" slip from the hospital, and his work will not accept that as proof that ss is his.
Is there anyone dh can call to enforce the court order? We don't have an extra $4000 due to her negligence...and documentation like birth certificate, social security card and such should be made available without either parent having to jump through freaking hoops. She has refused to co-parent from the beginning. The only thing I can think of doing is have dh send his portion of the bill in along with a copy of the court order and BM contact information, but it isn't the insurance companies job to collect since her name isn't on the plan. Any ideas?