your 6th sense is a gift!!!
ladies and lads,
always trust your gut. It's like our bodies are human lie detectors, u just gotta listen! Some of u may remember how I'd question whether or not my (now) ex boyfriend was still in love with his 2nd baby mamma. Something seemed so off about their relationship. But anytime I'd ask him or question him about her, he'd tell me I'm insecure and having flighty ideas and then he'd have a reasonable explanation to my question(s).I'd feel "WTF" about something pertaining to him/her, question him.....went on for a long time.
One of the things that blew my mind was how upset he was over Golden Uterus' announcement that she was preggo again. She was pregnant by her boyfriend, the man who she left my bf for 3 years ago. I asked him why he would be somber over her preggo news. Boyfriend claimed he was worried about how it will affect THEIR son (age 5). Why? Because she rarely has time for him as it is, with work and school, so add a baby to the mix and she will probably never have time for him. Hmmmm. Sounds kinda reasonable. But I raised an eyebrow when he added: "her boyfriend is such a BUM, I feel so bad for her."
Well, we broke up soon after her preg announcement for various reasons. But I vividly recall asking bf why she announced her pregnancy to their 5 yo son 1 month into her pregnancy. I thought it was pretty weird and not common practice. Most women I know wait until the 3 month mark before announcing it to their young children, especially if the woman is 35 or older. I asked him if her pregnancy was made up, but he called me "weird and crazy" for that suggestion, and then showed me her online gift registry, etc. I then felt bad for even thinking she would do something like that.
I won't go into the BU details, but I will say that even during our BU fight, he claimed I was too insecure for him with my suspicions over him n her. We parted and I haven't talked to him in 3 months. But today, I found out through a mutual coworker of ours that she miscarried 3 months into her pregnancy. And that everyone at her job thinks the pregnancy was MADE UP. Why? Because her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was likely grasping at straws to keep him!! Ugggh. Nobody at her job KNOWS for sure if the pregnancy was a lie, but how interesting that I thought she was lying right off the bat, and now her coworkers think she was as well. And the best part? She is back with my ex boyfriend now, playing happy family. I was right again.
The odds of them lasting this time? My gut is telling me 1 year! And I hope she burns his heart up. Use yout 6th sense ladies. It is an amazing gift!!