yippee.. dh has contempt
So I check the mail the other day and there is a letter from the court house... postponing a contempt hearing on DH because he has not yet been served the contempt papers.
What is the contempt about you ask, well in May we were adviced by highly trained professionals to take SS13 to a residental psychatric facility, after carefully talking to him they determined that he should be admitted.. (he said he wants to kill others and himself, not to mention the sexual acting out), they didnt need BM's permission because legal custody is with DH.. so a month later she files contempt charges on him because she was not asked if it was ok that he went in there. She does not agree to him goin in there.
What gets me is that if DH wouldnt have told her she wouldnt have ever known he was in there cuz its not like she bothers calling or communicating. She has went months without talking to them.. and never ever calls here to talk to them or find out whats going on in their lives.
She will also be taking DH to court for custody of SS, not SD, just SS..
although I am aggrivated because thats just more in lawyers bills for us, she has legal aid so its free for her, we do, however welcome the chance for a judge to tell her to shove it up her ass..
in the past 5 yrs alone (we were always told to go back 5 yrs)
she has willingly signed off legal custody, she had supervised visitation she didnt make it to most of the time, she has not proven to be a stable place for her kids, and not to mention we have several drs. saying the kid needs help..
So I guess the court hearing is Aug. 10, he has yet to be served the contempt papers so it might be postponed again because she isnt paying to have him served.. but until then there goes my effing vacation and any type of anniversary or bday for me, and lets not forget school clothes for our kids will be very limited, we have to come up with yet another 2000 to retain the lawyer.. anniversary is next wk, vaca was suppose to be the 2nd wk in aug, and school starts the end of aug.. if she drags this out to mediation we will have to pay for that as well..!!
oh and when she said something to him when he asked about the contempt she said its her turn for support.. and it would be well over 50 a wk\
without legal custody she does not have a leg to stand on.. wonder if we can sue her for lawyers bills??