Why do they think we always want to be around their kids?
I don't dislike his kids but I do dislike the way they behave at times. I know there are certain situations when I know its probably best his kids aren't around. For example when we are in sitautions where there will be longer than usual wait times, I don't think his kids should go as they get bored very easily and start to complain about being bored, hungry (when they just ate lol), become restless, etc. but he insists on bringing them because they want to go and it makes things difficult. He also assumes I want to see them. Honestly I care about his kids and I do not wish them any harm or ill will whatsoever, but I can take them or leave them to be honest. And sometimes I would rather they were not there as they do not behave the best. Is that terrible of me? I feel bad for feeling this way but I do. Sometimes I deal with the guilt of feeling that way. But why do they assume we always want to be around their kids?