Why do these men still want not to talk to the ex when the skids are adults?
My sd has not had a phone since November. She rarely communicates with her dad now. He said yesterday he didn't believe for one minute that she didn't have a phone. He blocked her mom from calling him. He hasn't called the BM since they sold the jointly owned home. To my insistence because "divorce " means over. The kids are adults and there's nothing left to talk about. NOTHING. So I told him I thought the she was wanting him to call her on "Moms" phone so she would have his new number, and it would get the two of them on the phone together. Mom. And dad talking again. Shes 22. He said "he wouldn't mind talking to the BM". I said "why"? What's there to talk about? He said their son. That the mother should encourage him n ou t bag and belittling him. Hes 27. I said "So your trying to fix her". You really think what you say would make a difference. Hes codependent, shez an alcoholic, our counseling said "THAT NO GOOD WOULD EVER COME FROM THEM TALKING ". To much resentment and anger. He also said she might need closure. I said "well she can find it somewhere else ". I said you cant fix her. I said "Do you need closure "? Been divorced 3 years now. He said no. So Men out there, why does he still want to communicate with her? He hasn't done it that I know of? What's in his head?