Why do many of you still choose to stay married if you are so miserable
I don't mean to offend anybody, but as I read through all these posts, All I read are complains, bitching and moaning about step children, bm dramas, miserable in laws, none supportive husbands - guilty daddies. I made a post about my cheating husband, everybody suggested that I need to leave. I think it is great advice, don't get me wrong.
I do decide to leave because I agree with all of you, I deserve better. But I am just curious, it seems like some of your situations are beyond repair (possibly very close to mine for different reasons). Why do you choose to stay with the marriage?
I just want to figure out the pros and cons, so I can leave the marriage for good.
My husband cheated on me, he also cheated on his ex. We had a heart to heart talk tonight and he said he cheated because he was afraid I was going to cheat on him. I don't buy this lame excuses. Cheating is a deal breaker for me and I am not going to sell myself short.
I do wonder though, have you reached to a point of no return in your marriage? Many of you here cannot even stand your step kids and bm, and many of you have non supportive husbands, why do you stay in the marriage?
This question does not apply to those women who have supportive husbands. THis question is for those who have unbearable step kids and non supportive husbands who show them no respect, no respects.