Why do BM’s get so jealous?
Its SJ strange how most BM’s seem to get jealous if their offspring likes the BM. If I were a BM, I would be thrilled for my kid to have a good relationship with the SM. I’ll never forget when I took my SKID to the county parade and fair. He was 8 and had never been to the parade/fair despite BM living walking distance from both. We had a blast, absolute blast, and I truly bonded with SKID. BD wasn’t there because he had a last minute work emergency to attend and SKID was really looking forward to going, so I said I’d still take him. A few weeks later during mediation, BM and BD were negotiating who gets SKID during which holidays, events, etc. BM said she wanted him on the first day of the county fair so SHE could be the one to take him to the parade and fair every year. And how I am not allowed to do anything solo with skid. She was pissed that her kid had such a good time with me. I don’t get it.