Who is tired of being used?
Are you being used financially by your spouse? Expected to pay for your stepkids when they have two parents who are alive and well? Expected to foot the bill for their extra groceries, pay for their meals, etc. when no one pays for yours and they eat the majority of everything? Are you being used by your spouse otherwise? Expected to fix things around their home, bail them out of tough situations and babysit their kids during your free time when they have two parents who are living and well? If you are being taken advantage of by a step user raise your hand!