Where should he sleep?
Hello, Two weeks ago I have finally found flat of my dreams that I was looking for last few months.
My SO has a 14yo son who stays with us 11days per month and last two years we have been renting flat with one bedroom that was for SS,so basiclly I had to sleep in living room(that type with open kitchen) on the sofa while empty room was aways ready for SS.Now rules is going to change...Im the one who is taking a huge debt and the flat will be only for my name and also is one bedroom so now there is even no subject of sleeping in livingroom- we definitely will keep it for us.Everything seems to be fine but I feel like my SO is kind of unhappy that his son will have to stay in livingroom:/...Well, I could live two years with zero private space while his son visits and now if the situation will change seems to create issue for him.
I have been dreaming many years to have my own flat,saving money for 10% deposits (and I dont earn coconats) and now when my dream comes true he is ruining my happiness showing his dissatisfaction...
How should I handle it?