When is enough enough?
Ive been with my fiancé four years, he’s a good man, he’s a good SD to my kids. For some reason he won’t step up and tell his XW to back off. She is always in our business. Future endeavors, my children, my work life, scheduling. She is there and I’m tired and hurt because I’ve become a broken record asking him to have boundaries but in reality Im suppose to just suck it up. ALSO He doesn’t discipline his kids (7&9) consistently, which is almost worse then not at all, because they know his threats are just that. My 7yr old SS has major behavioral issues, at our house, at the BM and at school and it’s blamed on a divorce that happened when the SS was 2. I’ve asked him to speak with him and to enforce rules but just like with XW it’s never done, it gives me a huge amount of anxiety and I feel extremely removed. I attempted to speak with him again about the matter and his response to me was “Why talk you’ll just be miserable anyway” what he seems to forget is he’s the root of it. So when do you know if a relationship is worth salvagingor it’s time to walk away.