Whdy does this bug me so much?
So the other day I posted about SS15 sleeping until 1pm after being at his friends house for the week. So he came back from another friends on Sunday (now Wednesday here) and I was home today also. So hubby had words with him after last sleeping event and had given him chores to do while we were at work. So today being that i was off work, I actually get to see what it is SS15 does. he got up at 10am, ate an enormous amount of food, did the couple of chores his dad told him to do which took about 1-5 hours tops, then went back to bed. It is now 4.14pm in the afternoon.
Now I much prefer him to be away from me as the very sight of him pisses me off, but I tend to look at the bigger picture. He goes back to school is under 2 weeks, to go into Year 10 - his last 'junior year' so to speak. Here in Australia Year 10 is really the start of the planning for their senior years re. career paths. SS15 has no idea what he wants to and I suspect little interest. I just get so angry when I think that he has every opportunity to be a good, hard working kid and he basically doesn't give a shite.
I asked him what he was doing when I walked back past his room at around 12, he said resting - I asked from what and his response was, dad doesn't want me on the compter the whoel time so I don't see what the problem is with me sleeping. I said because that is all he ever does - go on the computer and sleep.
As I said, I shouldn't care but a part of me is worried that if he does not pick up his game now, come end of school he won't have anything to go to so will hang around her, and I want him out!