What was your first ever meeting with the now Skids like ??
Well, mine was very straight forward. DH had been very open about having two Skids, I know that sounds obvious but sometimes I read on here that another skid or two can appear sometimes. He had shown me photos, we had discussed previous nightmare relationships, him, his marriage, me a long term involvement.
Fast forward about 2 months from us seriously dating to him bringing the kids to his house where I already was waiting. They were VERY sweet, sat with me straight away on the sofa and we eventually spent a lovely hour or so reading books together !!! They were quite young, both a little bit on the small size for their ages and I do remember noticing they were dressed a bit shabbily if you know what I mean.....
Now when I look back and think about it, it all seems very dreamlike compared to now and the hell SD21 put us through.
I do remeMber one very early car trip with them, when I was left alone in the car with them for like 5 minutes. SD21 was asking questions...
SD21 Do you have any kids?
SD21 Good ! We do not want any MORE babies !!!
ME. ( silence )
Her BM had a baby with her deluded and still is deluded bf, very quickly after their divorce was finalised.....
I always thought it was an odd thing to say to someone you had just met !!!