what a moron...
ok so after skids living here for 10 yrs they are going to live with their mom.. for several reasons... right or wrong it is what it is.
Anyways all summer long they have been at BMs house, they come here every other week Sun-Thurs. all summer long she has picked them up at 4pm.. that is until yesterday, finally at almost 5 I text her myself, instead of having DH do it.. I say "When are you picking your kids up?", she comes back with "today I thought"... ahh I forget who I am dealing with.. I say "ok then do you think you can tell me a time" she says "or I can wait till tomorrow if you want".. this pisses me off because I have been sick, I had a drs. appt at 4:30, I miss it because I dont know where she is, and we dont need another bullshit contempt charge, and I dont feel good I dont want to take 4 kids to the drs.. its an appt not a field trip..we have to pay for the lawyer ourselves, we dont have our entire family doing it for us.
ok so I call DH, I am like she is a moron you need to call her and find out whats going on.. DH calls her and says its been 4 all summer what makes you think it is different today? told her I missed an appt. and have been sick.. she says she didnt know.. and for things like that just tell her and she will make sure she is here on time.. wtf is that???? I mean seriously... ugh!!! Now I have to report to her what I am doing.. screw her.. I texted her and told her from now on if she is more than 15 mins late I was leaving.. and she would have to make arrangements with DH to get the kids cuz I am not going to be used by her, andmy life does not revolve around her and her ability and want to be a parent to her kids... wow sounds so much nicer on here than it did to her.. lol..
Skids even said "if you would have told her she probably would have been here on time" I told them that I am a big girl and I dont need to report to anyone,least of all their mother.. and that she should be here at 4 cuz thats what time their parents agreed on...
ok maybe its petty and stupid.. but I am very sick and missed the drs. appt..I planned accordingly, she should too.. I think its bullshit that we couldnt get ahold of the lawyer to find out what to do when she was not here on time, so I had to miss my appt... DH would have come home but he works far enough away that I still would have missed that appt.. BM texted at 5 and said she was on her way.. showed up at almost 7.. she only lives less than an hour away..
sooo do you report to BM what you are doing??