What do you do about resentment?
My husband is a wonderful person, husband and father. I truly have no complaints about him. His kids have been respectful and mostly accepting of me. I am respectful and nice to them but in the 6 years we've lived together, I still cannot stand sharing my home with them. It's mostly just SD 14 who lives with us every other week at this point. I have a 7 month old with my husband, and between becoming a new mother and suddenly being home all the time and rarely escaping SD 14, my husband is struggling with me being distant from him. We've always been very close and affectionate but I'm finding I have resentment towards him bc I don't want to share my home with SD 14. The way I deal with my irritation and resentment is basically to disengage, but it's hurting my husbands feelings. I love him so much still, but being home while she is loud and needy of him gets on my nerves. I have tried therapy and hired a life coach. We have plans to move once SD graduates in 3.5 years to be closer to our families. I need to get through these next few years without hurting him so much but I struggle every time she is around. Has anyone found anything that helped them get through resentment?