What to do?
When my SD 12, 10 and 9 come over to our home their clothing smells like dog fesis. BM has several pit bulls and the 9 year old told me one of the dogs will "play bite" her and her sisters.
When they come over they are filthy I have them take a shower and put on clean clothes and I have to wash everything they bring. This has been going on for several years.
I found out that CPS was called on BM several times about the kids and dogs. She was told the dogs had to stay outside but from the smell of the girls clothing and conversations with them I know that isn't the case.
I am conflicted on how to handle the situation. As a mother to my own 3 children I don't want to insult BM by bringing it up, I am worried about the kids going to school smelling that way. Any advice?