What to do???
Bio mom is a total naturalist(sorry think that's the right term)and HATES modern medicine. That being said my 12 yr old Stepson "Gerry" has been diagnosed with ADHD and other psychological conditions that require control with meds many years ago. BM has been fighting my husband regarding this for years and wants Gerry off meds. The Dr's are the ones recommending the meds not us and both my husband and I ARE not drug pushes. Gerry does not just have a mid case of ADHD. He has severe "rages", hypertensive to almost anything and has severe problems dealing with other children. He has no friends do to his behavior problems. Since they share legal joint custody legally BM can't take Gerry off meds without my husbands consent. Here is the problem....We believe BM has been encouraging Gerry to not take his meds. Recently Gerry has been caught throwing his meds out at school and lying saying he took them. Now that Gerry is getting older its harder to catch these things at home. Gerry has not had any issues with the meds before and there is no reason for him to be doing this unless its being encouraged from BM. Gerry really needs his meds to keep his mood stable so how would you guys handle this? BM is to smart to get caught so we really can't do anything regarding the court systems.