What age do Kurds usually stop crying over minor bumps and scrapes
Sd14 is really diving me up the wall with her crying over everything. She cries when she falls into her chair from 6 inches up. She cries when she bumps her elbow on the table. She cries when she stubs her toe. She cries when she bumps her head on a cabinet door.
Im not talking about a few tears. She makes a huge scene and tears conne gushing out. She carries on for about 30 minutes this way. She reminds me of my 3yo nephew when he falls down hard with blood pouring down his knees and elbows. When she hurts herself to where there was blood, she'll scream as if she had her bones protruding from her skin. I've never met anyone who acted this way. My own daughters haven't cried when getting hurt at least since they were 5 or 6 so I don't really know if I just have really tough girls and am judging unfairly.
When sd carries on the way she does, i just tell her "it's ok sd, people get hurt sometimes, you'll be fine. I promise." I don't want to seem im judging her, or that I'm being insensitive to her. But inside it just really makes me sick. DH just ignores the crying, he doesn't say anything anymore. He used to freak out, running to grab ice packs and our first aid kit. But I think he sees how my dds respond to pain compared to sd, and now realizes sd is over reacting.