Over the years, Batsh!t BM thwarts any attempt by DH to talk to teachers, counselors etc... at SD13's school.
New school counselor got wise and got his number from SD, and called him at the office. Turns out, BM has been saying he is an absentee dad and has no interest. As sole custody primary parent, the school has no reason to think otherwise.
BTW- this is the first we are hearing that SD sees the counselor daily... Her grades are great- but she is anxiety ridden and the teachers have been a little concerned.
He has an appt with the counselor this week. BM will go apeshit. So far- the conversation has been VERY enlightening in terms of the lies BM has been telling.