Venting honestly is there something Wong with this picture!
Don’t know where to begin but will start with the latest issue. SS13 is Awful about getting his HW done. Lies, refuse to do it ect. DH is a “Disney dad” who can’t see what a brat SS is. So here is the new incident....
Friday I went on the school webpage and copied all of SS’s late/current HW assignments and gave it to DH since we had SS this weekend. SS has 8 assignments. Saturday I had to work so was not home till evening. I asked how the HW went and DH said SS TOLD HIM he did some at school already or he did not have the Materials to complete the work. So basically out of the 8 assignments SS got ONE done. SS LIES out his ass and I told DH if SS said he completed something to tell SS he was going to email the teacher to find out if it was true. DH did NOT tell SS this. I also told him Friday if SS said he did not have the HW to go in his school bag to make sure he was not lying. Again DH did not do this on Saturday. So Sunday morning when SS was still sleeping I went thru his school bag and guess what??? I found Uncompleted HW SS told DH he did not have or had already done. DH then got all pissed off with me saying why did I wait till Sunday morning to show him this. Big WTF! I told him I gave him a list of the HW due over the weekend FRIDAY. It’s not my fault he did not think to check SS bag to make sure he was not lying. So now because SS was lying and DID NOT complete his HW the plans we had for today got canceled so DH can hold SS hand dong his HW or he won’t do it. To make matters even worse when DH Confronted SS this morning about the HW he told DH was done but lied about SS flipped a nut that DH went through his school bag!
Now one WOULD think DH would Punish SS not only for lying about not doing the HW BUT for talking so rudely to DH about his school bag?? Right? Nope! DH tried to Calmly reason with SS why he had the check his school bag but SS was not having it. DH had to drop it and kiss SS’s ass to get him to do the HW. DH is all friendly with SS but pissed off at me. I’m the one who should be pissed as the event I wanted to go to today DH backed out off last minute because of SS. Yes I could have gone by myself BUT it would not be as much fun alone and last minute I could not find anyone else to go with me. Opinions? Am I wrong to think DH is being a ass