Vent / Update
So back in late June ss DECIDED he didn’t want to come home from visitation. He said it was because I “changed” after my father passed. I was too sad . Anyways, the system screwed us and wouldn’t let DH just go get him. So, he filed a show cause. She tried to pull him out of school, she filed for full custody, my name was ALL over every document and convo dealing with this. Then, dh and I spoke and decided (not lightly) to let him stay. He is 15 now and as you all KNOW, court is not a speedy process. So we figured if we fought then in 2 years when it was over, as would be 17 and be able to give us the middle finger and leave anyways. Along with blame dh for “keeping him” from his “mom?” That being said ss is still a JERK! So disrespectful! Dh is beside himself and bm is trash! Ex: he ignores dh’s Phone calls, talks to him horribly, and is just a lying, sneaky pos. I feel bad for dh. They had an AWESOME relationship! As we all know the squeaky wheel gets the grease, and in the 10 years we had him, he spent a majority of his time not being “present”. He would be with us at fam functions and have the 1000 mile stare becuse he was desperate to know how “mommy” was doing. He missed so much LIFE doing this.
finally their fam dog passed and “mom” is depressed so sweet baby angel gets anxious and decides he is staying. Fast forward this week: we have a family member literally on his death bed and ss could give a crap! We are also about to be pounded by this storm so dh reaches out to ss last nightto make sure that they are prepared. NO REPLY. So, dh calls him today and he IGNORES it. Y’all I know he is a child but I am fit to be tied with his disrespect! Her as well. Dh hasn’t cancelled his court case as of yet because, well, she SUCKS! I am beyond furious. I mean I can go to counseling and what not BUT dh is broken. What a trashy hell! Ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!