Valentine’s Day rant anyone else with this problem???
Ever since I met DH( 7 yrs ago) everything Revolved around SS. We even had to plan our Honeymoon around DH Parenting time! God forbid DH miss a weekend with SS. This along with other things has Created a entitled spoiled brat that thinks the world Revolves around him.
First issue Every year Valentine’s Day has fell on DH parenting time. Not once has DH said to BM he could not get SS or even tell her he would pick him up after we went out to dinner for a couple of hours. SS would flip a nut if he missed any daddy time but to bad. BM has not dated since their divorce because in her words “she is fully Devoted to raising SS”. So it’s not like she wanted to go out too. Yes we can Celebrate on another night but it’s more the Principal that DH won’t even miss TWO hours of his parenting time for a Special occasion. Yes I’ve asked him and he refused.
Number two. Last I knew Valentine’s Day was for your Partner/Significant other. Well SS gets a card and the SAME candy I get. We get the same gift given at the same time EVERY year. I’m sure part of the reason is DH knows if I got more or better than SS he would again flip out. Oh SS is 12 yrs old not 5!
Now I don’t mean to come off as petty but this is just another issue due to SS being spoiled rotten. So every Valentine’s Day I get to spend watching tv alone or going to a movie by myself. All my other friends have dates so there is no one to hang out with. DH has to spend 24/7 Entertaining SS and doing what he wants even on Valentine’s Day which will be playing Video games, playing Basketball, or pillow fights.
Anyone else have this problem with a Disney dad????