1) I found out that my now (ex) boyfriend now has BM's current boyfriend do handyman work around his house (my exbf's house) and pays him to do the handyman work. The reason? BM's boyfriend doesn't have a job and my exboyfriend felt bad that BM gives her boyfriend an allowance....so he gives him work to do to earn some money to take some of the burden off of her. WTF! And mind you, her boyfriend is the man she left my exboyfriend for nearly 3 years ago. Why can't exboyfriend just MOVE ON??
2) I put a profile up on Match and have been on 4 WONDERFUL dates with a guy who is ONLY 28. I'm 33 going on 34. He has his program together and we have a good time, but I'm kinda stressing about the age thing. He has never been married and has no kids. I think I"m worried that IF we become serious, he will leave me for a younger woman. The Exbf cheated on me once, so now I guess I have some trust issues. I don't think this guy has really been in a serious relationship. Me? I've had 3 in my life and I feel like I'm damaged goods because of my failed relationships and shithead exbf's who played mind games. I don't want to damage this guys playfulness. And how will his folks feel about him dating a woman 5.5 years OLDER. Ugggh. Stressing.