Update BF wants to work at my place of employment
Update to my BF announcing that he wants to work IT at my hospital.
I thought we were done talking about it. Guess not! He picked me up last week and came inside to greet me, and as we were leaving he decided to stop by the Director of IT’s office. I thought he stopped by to say hi (He met the director at some conference when we began dating).
They had some small talk, then he got a sh*t eating grin and said, “I know you’re not hiring but I’m going to put this out anyway and let you know I’d love to work here (Then started talking about his credentials). I was floored and was immediately angry. The director told him that they are not hiring, he would need certification, but they do hire part time in certain parts of the year but the money is very low….
We left and I calmly said I thought we would discuss your working here? I told him that I worked my butt off to get to where I am here and I will not let BM ruin that. I told him how I feel like he is operating like a single man and not discussing things with me before making these decisions.
I took your advice and asked him how he is going to protect me from visits from BM and is he ready to breakup if any of that happens? He then apologized and said he will not pursue the hospital.