Off topic... Guys I think my SO is cheating on me!! How can I get more proof?
I really need your thoughts on something that happened, as it might be an indicator that my SO is cheating. We both live together.
On Friday when we went home after work my SO told me he was going to take out the trash and also pass by the liquor store to get a beer. The liquor store was around the block and it was 9:30 pm. I got a texted message from him while he was out and it said: "Hey, how are you? I can invite you to go somewhere sometime. Wherever you want". It was a message that didn't make sense and maybe it was for someone else???? That's what came into my mind because of these reasons:
#1 He's been distant lately and doesn't text much. When I ask why he doesn't text he says he's too busy at work. I feel like a fool texting first all the time.
#2 it doesn't make sense that he would send me a text when he went out for a moment and was going to come back right away.
#3 We never talked about going anywhere and the message says he was going to invite someone out. I don't think he would say that to me if we live together and always go out.
I confronted him and asked him to let me see his phone and he wouldn't let me. He kept telling me he felt offended that I didn't trust him. As far as the text, first he said it was probably his phone acting crazy and then he said that the message was for me and he was just playing and wanted to fantasize about being a random guy asking me out. We do fantasize sometimes but I really find it hard to believe that. I don't want to throw away 2 years of relationship over a text message. I would like more proof to see if he's cheating. But how will I find out if he's very protective of his phone??? He only goes to work and home and he's with me on the weekends. I don't see with whom he could be cheating unless it's his EX, the mother of his children. They have children in common so they talk once in a while.
what do you suggest for me to find more evidence?