I need help with this one! I am newly engaged to be become a step-mom and the BM is a waste of space. My fiancee and I have been together for over two years, living together for just under a year. He proposed in September and we found out we were pregnant in October. Of course all of the news has caused quite a bit of excitement foe his daughter (7) so she has shared the excitement with her BM. The BM was not very happy apparently as I just saw her in the grocery store the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. She followed me through the store and then proceeded to threaten the get a restraining order against me and make my life hell if my fiancee and I ever fought in front of her daughter or I made her the slightest bit unhappy or uncomfortable. Needless to say this caused quite a bit of anxiety for me especially with all of the hormone issues with the pregnancy. I have been having stomach issues, heart palpitations, trouble sleeping, sweating, shaking, etc. ever since the incident in the store. My fiancee has asked me to just forget about it and move on. I am hurt that he has not shown concern for the baby or myself. He told me I am tough and I need to get over it. I feel as though he has taken her side and basically affirmed her behavior. Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas on how to handle this?