Struggling with feelings
Ok.... my husband and I were on our way home from a family members house on thanksgiving. My ss blurted out that his mom is pregnant. I am also pregnant ...I’m a lot farther along than her. I’m starting to feel this is more than just a coincindence because this is the second time it’s happened, exactly the same way except. The first time we told her , a few months later she’s pregnant with someone she hadn’t been with long. Then, she lost her baby and now she’s pregnant with baby #4 with another ex boyfriend. :? :? Bm and I/DH have a decent relationship but still...idk....? were worried about our ss as well because he’s not as stable with his mom . She’s back and forth between boyfriends and she’s always saying how she has trouble with ss behavior wise /with school. He’s likes things structured and doesn’t have that with her. Here he does. Now he has to adjust to two newborn siblings ..one at the end of his school year (with us) and one during that start of new school year (with Mom). I told her congratulations but I just don’t even know how to feel or if I should feel anything...even though we kinda predicted it would happen. So why is this bothering me???????????