i have a 4yo SS and a 3yo SD who i do love very much but i find them hard work sometimes. They stay with us every weekend friday till monday and my boyfriend is currently going through court to get them week on week off. I don't mind this at all, but what i do mind is that the court will make there final decision in January and my baby is due in february with my SS starting school in March, and my SD only going to kindy half a day i will be expected to do all the school and kindy runs plus look after them after kindy and school till five every evening when my partner finishes work, this on top of being a mum to a new born baby for the very first time when all this goes into place is making me feel very stressed out. I know how much my partner loves his kids, they mean the world to him and if he doesn't get to have the kids week about he will most likely loose them all together because BM wants to move away with them, i know that that would put strain on our relationship because coming from a broken family i know how hard SK can be when they get older and are not closely involved with there dad and SM plus i know how miserable it will make my SO. I don't know what to do, i am so stressed about the baby plus all this extra commitment that will be there at the beginning of next year!!