Step did step D O N E
I knew marrying my husband would be hard as he has two kids. What I didn’t know was how far my limits could be pushed. I really wish somebody would’ve told me not to get involved with him because step parenting is down right hard and crappy. But the step kids aren’t even the hardest part....
Im 32 years old. I met my husband through my best friend (who isn’t my best friend anymore) long story short she was a shit friend the last couples years of our friendship. She moved out of state without telling me and attempted to kidnap my husbands kids in the midst of it all. Me and her boyfriend (who is now my husband) became very close when she moved (they broke up) Because she hurt us both pretty bad. We ended up becoming good friends for a few years and ended up dating. We have a kid of our own a five year old girl. Plus his two kids. They believe their littl girl has autism and is taking s long time to meet all her milestones so they take her to therapy and to a psychologist. (She’s 2)
In one of their recent sessions the mom brought up that her daughter came home with a bruise and when she asked her what had happened the little girl replied “Melissa hit me” I’m Melissa btw. My husband told me this recently and I was fuming! I couldn’t believe that she would accuse me of abusing this child. I have never layed hands on a child and don’t even have the bone in my body to do that!!!! I’m worried that cps will show up at my door. I’ve worked in childcare for decades and I’ve never once been accused of abusing a child. I don’t know where to go from here. We have had many other unbelievable situations happen with her and this one has sent me overboard. This mama bear isn’t happy. My first though is I want to leave my husband. I know it’s not his fault but I don’t know how much longer I can handle the mental abuse from her. She is ruining my marriage and I don’t know what to do.