BM and her BF broke up in January. He left her and moved back to his home state, 10 hours away.
After this happened (January). ExBF contacted DH letting him know everything that happened. They were always civil with each other throughout the relationship so it wasn't a huge surprise. He also called to check on SD. He had been in her life 5+ years.
Fast forward a few months later. DH hadn't heard from him since. ExBF called saying he had to get a new number because of BM. ExBF went into details of all these terrible things that happened since.
ExBF told DH that she was stealing from the hospital (she is a nurse). He has text messages from her calling him an "addict." DH and I are thinking it could have been a mask that she was "stealing," however exBF made it seem like drugs.
DH doesn't want to get involved and thinks exBF may be stirring the pot.
IMO I thought they were pretty serious allegations. But probably not ours to make.
Thoughts on what you would do in that situation??