SS13 is Hoarding money at BM’s. Hill to die on?? Thoughts please
SS13 gets around $200 from DH's Relatives at Christmas plus DH gives SS13 a weekly Allowance for doing well in school or doing chores. SS13 refuses to put any money in the bank and wants to "hold on to it". The problem is SS13 does NOT keep the money at our house but sneaks it over to BM's house. DH has told SS13 he needs to keep the money at our house but SS never does and DH never Reinforces it. So when we go out SS13 never has any money since he's Brought it all over to BM's. This will lead to SS13 wanting stuff but has no money so DH just hands over more money.
This is a huge thorn in my side as SS13 is the most selfish brat that has hundreds of dollars at BM's house but refuses to spend any of it. I've had may Arguments with DH about this. DH will tell SS to bring money over or keep money at our house but SS never does and DH never Enforces it.
Would you just let it go since it's DH's money that's going to SS13 or is this a hill to die on?